a few years ago i started this and never finished it. Of late i have realised a few things:
1. theres a party animal inside me unwilling to die; as much as i protest bitch and whine i keep coming back to the old me and am having trouble aligning my goals with my personality....
(does that make sense)
So since im 25 yrs young i have decided not to be too hard on myself....accept me for being who i am; acknowledge my down falls and try and improve and work on what i got and who i am. in my mind i can visualise 'miss fit' i see myself jogging and being super healthy.... so i know i want it. just a few days ago i through it all to the wind and said; nah u know what; its not me; never gonna be me and tried to feel content for a few days.... but it aint gonna happen becasue somehow over the years a more positive me has also evolved.....so i have to try and work with both.... and im not dumb maybe just a biz lazy! So i've decided to scale the world again for 30 days and will record it in my blog.
"Your assignment for today:
Make a list of the three people you most want to influence during the
next 34 days. Keep this list with you at all times. Under each name, write down how you want to influence them, and how committed you are to making your influence a reality.
What do you want them to see in you in 34 days? How do you want to see their lives impacted simply by seeing what you will accomplish? Remember, you're making the climb for them as well as for yourself.
The larger you make your goal, the more important it becomes in your mind. The more you focus on it, the more "urgent" it becomes.......and your mind follows the call of the urgent."
Make a list of the three people you most want to influence during the
next 34 days. Keep this list with you at all times. Under each name, write down how you want to influence them, and how committed you are to making your influence a reality.
What do you want them to see in you in 34 days? How do you want to see their lives impacted simply by seeing what you will accomplish? Remember, you're making the climb for them as well as for yourself.
The larger you make your goal, the more important it becomes in your mind. The more you focus on it, the more "urgent" it becomes.......and your mind follows the call of the urgent."
DANIEL
i want him to see strength, determination, happiness contentness and consistancy. His life will be impacted by my actions enormously! It will help him stay upbeat and he will be happy that i'm happy in doing what i say i'll do.
PETER
i want him to see me focused producing results. I affect his world becasue im more positive, happy and a bit of a role model. He knows i can succeed so he loves watching me do so! and hes seen it before!
BIANCA
she doesnt care how i am.... she loves me anyway BUT by me making these changes she will believe in what i say and i would hope that by me making the changes i need; she will feel empowered enough to start her journey.
1 comment:
Very interestin post Kat!
Post a Comment